Showing posts with label Alpha Gamma Delta. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Alpha Gamma Delta. Show all posts

KJB Goes to Golden Convention

Gotta love a Facebook memory
Unless you live under a rock, or just don't pay any attention to me, you know that I recently went to my sorority, Alpha Gamma Delta's 50th Convention in San Antonio.

Advisors as a collegian and now friends!


What to say about Convention?

To state it simply, each Alpha Gamma Delta event- be that TLC, Recruitment visit, Alumnae event or Convention- gets better and better. For the simple fact that I get to see and meet more people and I get to learn more and care more deeply for our Fraternity year after year.

The say goes, "it's not Four Years, but For Life."

While going through recruitment you may hear that thrown around during the rounds from active members and you may wonder what that even means. While on the other side in your chapter as a collegian, you may hear it so often that you might be tempted to eye roll. It's not until you are on the other side of the collegian/alumnae spectrum that you're able to quite grasp to.

Met Catherine (middle) at TLC 2017, Met Ang (right) online

You join Greek Life for a multitude of reasons at the ripe old age of 18, believing you know the ways of the world. In my case, I was 19 when I joined Alpha Gamma Delta and was 22 when I firmly believed that simple act would be one of the greatest and most beneficial of my life. Then at 26, I finally attended my first Convention, our Golden (50th) Convention in San Antonio. I was able to meet up with women from my initiating chapter, Omega (The University of Akron) that have always been a part of my Alpha Gamma Delta experience, and our friendships and sisterhood continue to grow. I also met up with sisters from the chapters (Beta Delta, Indiana University. Beta Tau, Ball State University. Beta Xi, Purdue University. Epsilon, University of Kentucky. Gamma Omicron, Eastern Kentucky. Theta Upsilon, Georgetown College.) I support as a member of VST (Volunteer Service Team) along with the chapters I've visited for Recruitment (Zeta Delta, Towson University. Delta Iota, Chico State University.). Getting to be face to face with sisters that I've met through the wonderful (and sometimes terrible) wonderful of social media. Reconnecting with sisters I've met through Alumnae events such as Circle in the City or some other factor. [Even my best friend that now works for our FHC was able to experience his first convention as a staff member].

JP, Regional Property Manager for AGD Fraternity Housing Corporation

Stepping away from the mundane events of your life is always beneficial, but getting to step away and immerse yourself in your 114 year old sisterhood with 800 sisters is just damn good for the soul. It's a necessary recharge to the psyche.

So while I and countless others were experiencing our first convention, we were introduced to a sister attending her 32nd! (Convention is every two years). One of the first she attended being in 1954 when she was able to actually meet a handful of our actual Founders.

That's what we mean when we say, "it's not Four Years, but For Life!" While you're in it, your collegiate time seems like the most important and it is, it allows for our Fraternity to grow, but our time within the organization is more greatly spent as an alumna. How lucky are we, that our experience doesn't end with college graduation.



As our new installed International Vice President Education, Catherine Matthews wrote on the aforementioned Facebook memory (above), "And that, my friend, is what it's all about. Here's to more friends and more fabulous times. ❤️💛💚"

Here's to that!
xo,
KJB

Our next Convention is in 2020 in Phoenix and you can bet your ass I'll be there with bells on and hopefully my mother too!

Alpha Gamma Delta Founders' Day 2018

Happy Founders’ Month, sisters! Today on May 30, 2018 Alpha Gamma Delta celebrates 114 years of sisterhood. #AlphaGam1904




I'm sure it comes as a surprise to no one that I am a member of Alpha Gamma Delta International Fraternity... Perhaps it was the post here or here or here or here or here or here or here or here, to name a few... 


I joined November 2011, and I joined VST almost immediately after graduating in 2014 and it has honestly been such fun! I can't wait for next month's Convention in San Antonio!


There's even a buzz of Alpha Gamma Delta coming to the UC Davis campus and that means to me- Alpha Gamma Delta alumnae coming out of the woodwork to set up a new chapter and honestly, that's the kind of excitement I'm looking for. 

I love Alpha Gamma Delta, with my whole heart and I'm forever grateful for this organization's existence. My hope is that every person in a Greek organization feels exactly the same way.




Happy Founders’ Day!

xo,
KJB

KJB Lately: Losing My Resolve

Y'all moving to a new city is hard. Moving to a new state is hard. Making all these moves alone is even harder. The fact that these moves took me to the opposite side of the country where I know literally a handful of people in the immediate vicinity- has honestly took Thomas and I on a wild ride!

However...

I got to thinking this weekend (Memorial Day Weekend) how my time here {in Davis} feels a lot like my freshman year of college. I loved during the week cause people were always around and then the weekend came it was a real solitary event cause everyone was going out and I was staying in to watch movies. As previously mentioned, this didn’t really change until sophomore year when I joined Greek life {the best decision of my life}. 

I’m cool. I have Thomas and tv but there’s sometimes when I’m like— I should probably interact with {other} humans.

But I really don’t know how to meet people— it’s nearly impossible.

I’m already at a disadvantage— these places are already unfamiliar to me. 

Where do the "older young people" go to meet other humans?

I have no idea- and if you’re alone how do you make conversation with someone else? Right, cause I need to jive with someone I know to meet someone I don’t. I'm truly in my element when I'm feeding off of others.

Also- if I’m going somewhere alone- am I not wanting to be bothered? Are others?

And like— do I have to be drunk to make friends in the bathroom?? I don't really like to drink... & I’m not a great actor

All I wish is that there was a closer Alpha Gam alumnae group!

The take-away from this meltdown:
Like how do adults make friends??WHERE. DO. THEY. GO.WHAT. DO. THEY. DO.
 Like this whole not having coworkers thing is rough!

Then there's the "what am I doing?" meltdown of being 26 and my life not being what I envisioned at 14. Honestly, that's probably for the best-- but like WTF. I wanted to be married by 23, at the latest 25. Nope, didn't happen. Like, y'all I've never even been on a date. These 26 years have been a old run at a dumpster fire.

I had to request a pep talk from my BFF, that ironically we haven't been in the same room together since the day prior to her graduation... which was in December 2014:

"No no no that's normal. What's important is that where you are is a BUILDING BLOCK to where you want to be. There's a reason people say 30 is the new 20. It's because we do things on a different timeline and that INCLUDES all aspects of live. Don't stress, just enjoy the ride. You got this."
Which naturally worked wonders for the fact that God willing my admittance to law school, I'll be graduating around 30. So while I've always wanted to be Elle Woods, it just took me awhile to come back to the original goal!

And then this photo appeared on Facebook's "On This Day"...



Paired with this quote:
"You will get there when you are meant to be there and not one moment sooner. So relax, breathe and be patient."
So here's to this adventure and not losing my resolve to kick ass!
 xo,
KJB

Flashback Fashion Friday 2k18

Y'all it's been a whirlwind since August 25th (2017) when I was laid off until now... April 2018. But ya know .... even after all this time, always (for my HP peeps!) WE BACK!

The photos are not in any particular order, though I did go for as close to chronological order as possible. Ya wanna know how you can always see them in order, by following me on Instagram

Let's get into this madness! Flashback Fashion Friday is back!
August 25, 2017
August 28, 2017
Ya girl, KJB, is a versatile betch. I love a great pair of leggings and a nice top or even a plain tee. You can never go wrong with leggings and a tee.

October 7, 2017

Overalls are having a moment and I. AM. HERE. FOR. IT!
October 13, 2017

My OTK (over the knee) blue suede boots from Lane Bryant nonetheless are EVERYTHING to me (and quite obviously you, because presumably you have eyes)!
October 1, 2017
I love a good cutout! The tee is heavily distressed for a cute price tag thanks to Charlotte Russe and then the leggings are target and they have cute cutouts too! Now if only Thomas had gotten the memo. 
October 16, 2017
The same distressed tee from above worn with a bralette and heels rather than a sports bra and sneakers. Bralettes are having a moment right here with KJB but these ta-tas make them work, honey!
September 2017... I think, could be August or October though.

Pulling out the tee again for a Bachelorette Party and paired it with my leather/suede jacket (the inside has the suede and the outside is leather) and then a cute little grey suede purse!
September 30, 2017


A cute little floral dress from Target, yesssss kween! Paired with my cute and favorite orange heels!
October 8, 2017 

The most interesting part of a new job, is figuring out the dress code. Even more interesting when my job rarely takes me outside of the house but I'm supposed to represent the chapter well. Sometimes you get flannel and leggings... other times will come later!
November 28, 2017

Christmas morning means wearing my Christmas Beyonce tee and sticking a pose with my new bee purse.
December 25, 2017

When it's cold, all bets are off when it comes to fashion!
January 2, 2018
Oversized blouses and leggings are a Monday-Friday staple for my work wardrobe as well as being for my off-duty LEWKS!

March 26, 2018
Living in Northern California, means that I can jet over to San Francisco whenever I want and I love wearing a red lip when I do! Not to mention then adding my red tassel earrings from Bauble Bar to the mix!
April 8, 2018

Honestly, Athleisure should be EVERYBODY'S go to weekend looks! After "dressing up" all week, who doesn't wanna put their best foot forward with a chill outfit that is also stylish!
March 2, 2018
Obvi, I'm recently obsessed with my jean jacket (I got it from my momma, literally, THANKS MOM!)
March 27, 2018

Since moving here and spending the majority of my free time with Thomas or solo, I've been tearing it up at Target, my Easter outfit is no different. Seriously obsessed with this number and it's from the Irvine Target, so it has a special place in my heart.
April 1, 2018

Then aside from Target, I've found places online- Facebook suggested this, oops Zuckberg at it again- ChicSoul! Seriously check them out! I'm obsessed!
April 12, 2018

I feel like this LEWK speaks for itself! THE RETRO SUNNIES, perf! The linen blue and white striped top is perfect for the beach and THE RED LIP IS BACK!
March 26, 2018

The perfect Saturday springtime dress and it's PINK! Unfortunately not scented... get on it, Target!
March 25

This top is a cute off the shoulder top and these fab blue pants from T.J. Maxx and of course my denim jacket.
March 23, 2018


All black EVERYTHING and my denim jacket!
February 17, 2018

Made it to LACMA and so did my denim jacket!
March 27, 2018

Dress from Target. Badge from Alpha Gamma Delta International Fraternity.
March 6, 2018

Knowing Central Perk was up on the itinerary, I knew I needed to be serving Rachel Green REALNESS!
March 28, 2018 

My fave go to LBD, it's from Old Navy and it's casual but it sure is easy to dress up. Then this kimono is fresh from Irvine Target, yes kween. Even the necklace is TARGET, honey.
April 19, 2018

Y'all, this ASOS jumpsuit is EVERYTHING! It's beyond comfy and the compliments I received were BEYOND!
April 10, 2018

Here are the details from this look, the earrings were shocker- from Target and that RED LIP though!
April 10 details

When it's St. Patrick's Day how do you wear anything else but green!
March 17, 2018

Another recent Irvine Target purchase, an off the shoulder romper with fringe and pockets, SHUT UP!
March 30, 2017
I love a good denim on denim point. We ALL remember Justin & Britney! This is honestly a tee away from being a Canadian tuxedo, but don't think I won't do it!
March 3, 2018
 Everything Target!

Fun Fact: I moved here in October, I found this wall art in November and I waited for someone to visit so I could take a photo here and then I was able to do it TWICE within one week.
April 3, 2017
 A distressed water look, dusty blue and blue jeans and a red lip to take on Crissy Field!
April 8, 2018
 My fave (and only) distressed tee and my PURPLE, PEARL trench coat AND my PEARL HEELS! Y'all my screaming at my own damn nerve!
March 3, 2018

I am finally the owner of these beautiful Quay Australia rose gold sunnies! I'm honestly living my best life.

Fun Fact: These were the 4th pair of sunnies I had bought in a matter of 48 hours, probably less. But I wanna give myself some restraint that I clearly don't have.
April 4, 2018

My Recruitment Specialist ensemble! Completed with pearl earrings and my badge! Sadly these pants didn't make it through the day and had to be returned because while they were so soft and thin like I wasn't wearing anything... They fell the F apart come days end!
January 20, 2018

My beautiful birthday outfit! This blouse like the one above is straight from T.J. Maxx!
February 13, 2018

Bought this sweater specifically for my Ho! pants!
December 24, 2017

Blouse from Target! Skirt from Lane Bryant and bought for previous year's Ugly Christmas Sweater Party.
December 24, 2017

This was the hottest day of my whole damn life! I honestly should've changed into my white tee but there were people everywhere and public indecency is serious y'all.

Not so fun fact: There was a Siberian Husky arriving on the scene as we were leaving and I'm concerned for its' wellbeing everyday.
September 24, 2017

Ordered this Santa Claus dress from Amazon, and it did not disappoint though it was moderately see through with a flash and kinda short, but I turned it out with glittery tights.
December 23, 2017

I'm recently obsessed with gingham, if you already didn't know.
April 18, 2018

Honestly, without my happy meds, I find myself shopping a lot more than usual. Retail therapy is absolutely 100% real! While my bank account might be in real regret mode... but we're all benefitting aside from that!


I try to be serving LEWKS! Hope I make you proud erryday. 
xo,
KJB
March 27, 2018

Did you catch all the movie references?! Let me know in the comments below. 

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